When we talk about anal sex, we often tend to imagine the man behind the woman. But if you think about it, anal sex is more of a male than a female fantasy. Therefore, why not try it himself? To speak raw, an anus is an anus, whether it belongs to a man or a woman. Although the man still has a particularity: that of having a prostate. This is where the seminal fluid of man is stored. It is a very sensitive erogenous zone that can lead to an orgasm without ejaculation. Stimulating it is in fact an ultimate pleasure for the man, even if it is often repulsed by this kind of technique. At least until he could test it! What is called prostate massage is actually the stimulation of this organ. You allow yourself to make a parenthesis that breaks a little atmosphere of the subject, but which seems important to me as an argument for a man. The seminal fluid is acidic. The function of the prostate is to store this fluid. If it stagnates too long in the prostate, it increases the risk of cancer. So can prostate massage prevent cancer? Gentlemen, ejaculating are actually cancer prevention! And it’s not a joke or an urban legend.
Where is the prostate?
Let’s go back to our prostate massage: To make a comparison with the woman, the prostate, also called Point P in the sexual setting, is the female equivalent of Point G. Its stimulation allows orgasm, just as for the woman! To reach it, however, it is easier than for women. Just understand that a third of the penis of the man is in the body. We must therefore vulgarly enter the other side to stimulate this area. At about seven centimeters deep, on the front wall of the rectum, you will find what you are looking for. Whether it is stimulated with a finger, a prostatic massager or any other naughty accessory made for this, it will provide an immediate sensation to his touch.
How to do prostate massage?
If the woman is not very frank for a prostate massage in hand, she can use one of the many prostate stimulators on the market. It will be enough to introduce it delicately and gently in the rectum, entering by the anus, until the first reactions of the man. Recent sex toys can quickly find the prostate. The position of the man is important. It must not only be able to find a comfortable position, but also one that allows the prostate to be in the best possible angle to be stimulated. The most comfortable for the man is to lie on his back, with knees bent. Handmade, the partner must have washed his hands thoroughly, and cut his nails. As for the vagina in women,
Preparation and accessories
To facilitate penetration, a water-based lubricant is required. Avoid silicone-based lubricants to lubricate the anus. In addition, for the dilation of the anus is ideal, it is necessary that the man is perfectly relaxed. His partner can, for example, massage his back or penis beforehand to relax and put in an ideal condition. When the prostate massage starts, the man will feel very new sensations. He may be uncomfortable. Moreover, he will not be used to being himself penetrated, which implies to put him at ease. She can for example make him simultaneously a blowjob or masturbate. It will only be more pleasant and it will focus less on the act itself, at least psychologically. The massage itself involves movements that stimulate the prostate. No need to move back and forth in his anus because this feeling is unpleasant. It is the prostate that needs to be stimulated, not the anus or rectum.
Finally, if it is difficult to describe a sensation, men who have tested the prostate massage are few to dislike! If the man wants to test but is embarrassed in front of his partner, he can test it alone with a naughty accessory, usually a prostatic massager. This type of sex toy for men reproduces the movements most adapted to the stimulation of the prostate. The most ideal situation for a very qualitative orgasm and longer is however that described above: a hand massage by his partner, simultaneously with penis masturbation or masturbation. Breasts can also be used to masturbate their partner, although this can be acrobatic for the less agile.
For a couple massage
- She cleans her hands thoroughly and rinses them
- It takes a supine position, knees raised
- It gently penetrates the anus and rectum
- It detects the prostate about 7cm deep
- She is attentive to her physical reactions
- She masturbates or gives him a blowjob at the same time
For a solitary massage
- He cleans his sex toy with a disinfectant for sex toys
- He takes a supine position, knees raised
- He gently penetrates his anus and his rectum
- He detects the prostate about 7cm deep
- He uses the proper functions of his prostate
- He can masturbate simultaneously if he has a free hand
Opt for an adapted sex toy (prostatic massager). Attention, we do not put anything in his rectum. Think about it before ending up in the emergency room with a stuck banana or any other object of this form. Indeed, the anus tends to aspire. So you need an object with a flat base for example.
Opt for impeccable hygiene. Cut your nails to the shortest it would be a pity to hurt you badly. This area also has a lot of trouble to heal. Take it if you have time for a small shower. Go to the bathroom so that the bladder and rectum are empty.
Relax: To reach the prostatic orgasm, only one watchword! Do not forget to relax as much as possible. Otherwise, you will have a hard time finding what you are looking for. But how to relax:
- Cut your mobile phone (experts strongly advise you to finish reading the article before)
- Be in a quiet place, inviting to relax. For example, your bed or your sofa. Experts do not recommend the kitchen table or the laundry room.
- Sift the lights and light a few candles
- Lock the front door and make sure nobody will disturb you. If this happens, you have 2 solutions: prepare an excuse now about what you are doing and Invite the person to join you
- Heat the room remember, the muscles and all other parts of the body relax when it’s hot
Last but not the least, you undress: think of naughty scenarios, scenes that excite you. For that, nothing is worth a visit on adult sites gallery or read stories and naughty testimonials.