Sex and being tied up, many want to try since Fifty Shades of Gray. Here we show you ideas, tips and instructions for successful bondage as a tutorial.
Anal sex in the bound state
This position is ideal for anal sex in bed. The Passive is tied up in bed. Follow the instructions step by step to enjoy the anal bondage sex.
Introduce Butt Plug: Before it even starts, the passive partner introduces a butt plug anal. Some lubricant helps here. The butt plug is helpful for later anal sex and stretches the anus until the bondage is done. You will also have to ask yourself Have anal sex toys went mainstream? If you’re looking for quality butt plugs, you can check this link https://www.loveplugs.ca/collections/butt-plugs, a collection of butt plugs where you can get your next toy.
Create Ballstretcher / Parachute: Then either the parachute is placed around the testicles or the ball stretcher with hooks. The purpose is to easily pull the testicles later if the passive should pull his pelvis off during later anal sex. A rope is not yet attached to the ballstretcher / testicular parachute in this step.
Prepare bed with ropes: Attach one 1m rope to each of the four corners of the bed. If you have a bondage bed, you certainly already have matching hooks on the corners. With a box spring bed, you can simply attach the ropes to the slatted frame and then put the mattress back on. Then the ropes run out of the corners of the bed. In addition, attach a rope in the middle between the lower corners of the bed.
Put on the bed with your stomach: First put a big pillow in the middle of the bed. There can also be several. The pillows are supposed to help lift the butt, which makes anal sex easier. Then you should put a big towel over the bed on the pillow as a base. Alternatively, it would also be a washable sex pad. Now, the passive lies down on the bed, with his stomach on the pillow.
Tie the feet to the corners of the bed: Now connect the ropes from the lower corners with the feet (ankles) or put on ankle cuffs and connect them to the edge of the bed. A snap hook can help here. The legs are thus spread properly.
Tie hands behind your back: Now you use the 2m rope. The arms are crossed behind the back and you put the rope around your forearm several times. The end of the rope is drawn again around the loops and then fixed with a figure eight. The Passive can no longer use his hands. Alternatively, you can also use an ankle strap for the back, which is usually combined with a neck restraint.
Fix the arms: Connect the elbows with the ropes that you already prepared at the upper corners of the bed. Thus, the passive can no longer slip. If you want to use a gag, you can create it now. Sneaker fetishists can also hold a sneaker in front of his nose and fix it there. If you use bondage gloves, you can now put them on the tied up.
Fix Parachute or Ball stretcher: Attach the last rope to the hook of the ballstretcher or parachute and pull the rope down towards the edge of the bed so that the testicles are slightly stretched. Then you knot the rope to the rope, which still sticks out from the edge of the bed. At the testicles should now be a train. If the passive moves later upwards, the pull on the testicles is further increased.
Remove Butt Plug: Carefully pull the butt plug out of the passive anus. The sphincter is already pre-stretched, so you do not need a lot of preliminary work on anal stretching.
Enjoy anal sex: Now everything is ready for the bondage and you can enjoy the anal sex. Put on the condom, apply lube and fuck.
For these bondage instructions you need at least the following equipment:
- 6x 1m, 1x 2m or
- 4x 1m with ankle cuffs and 1x 2m or
- 2x 1m, back restraints with collar and ankle restraints
- Parachute or ball stretcher with hook
- Butt plug
- Latex suit
- Bondage gloves
If you have all the toys ready, the bondage session can begin. Put in advance everything ready, what you need for the bondage sex. Also think of the lubricant and condoms for anal sex.
More ideas for the bondage sex
If you want, you can occasionally stimulate the penis of the passive in between. While penetrating anally, grab sideways around the pelvis of the passive, so that you can reach the penis. Then you can stimulate it a little bit. Make sure, however, that the passive does not come first. That should be the privilege of the master. Whether you inject into the condom or shortly before coming pull the penis out of the anus, to inseminate the passives from the outside, is up to you. If the active person wants to delay his orgasm himself, he can simply grab a dildo and continue to stimulate the passive with it. So you avoid during a sex break, that closes the sphincter again too much.
The passive can also wear a latex suit or fetish clothing for the bondage sex. It is important here that the testes and anus are freely accessible. The zipper should stay open in this area. The fetish clothing must be put on before the bondage. The active person can wear whatever he wants. Only his penis has to protrude outward when it starts with anal sex. He can stay dressed up to this point.
The captive sex position can also be used for spanking with a paddle as a prelude. This can happen, for example, where the butt plug is still in, just before anal sex.A chastity belt makes the bondage even nastier. This way, the passive cannot be properly excited. Depending on the experience you can choose this increase.
The bondage sex must not necessarily be over after the anal sex. Likewise, a session is handled so that the active master comes to orgasm more often during a session and the submissive passive partner only at the very end. He is repeatedly stimulated sexually, without being led to orgasm. This technique is called Cum Control or Orgasm Control and can be done over several hours.